Obituaries
CLARENDON: Sabo, Frieda May, died October 21, 2025, at age 93. Predeceased by her husband, Albert Sabo (2006), and her brothers, Cecil Moore Jr. (2018), Ronald Moore (2013), Clifford “Kip” Moore (2012), David Moore (2022), and Gary Moore (1947), her sisters, Colleen Sauro (2021), Zola Smith (2021), and Vera Kingdollar (2022). She is survived by her three daughters, Deborah (Tom) Beach, Doreen Ward, and Della Rusin, all of Medina; her two sons, Wesley (Carmen) Sabo of Clarendon and Scot Sabo (Kim Stewart) of Medina; her brother, Robert Moore of Albion; and her sisters, Betty Fulks of Florida, Bernice Smith of Kendall, and Sandra Kozlowski of Albion; her eight grandchildren; her seven great-grandchildren; and dear friend Carollee Arnett. A woman of unwavering kindness and warmth, Frieda was truly never one to say an unkind word about anyone. She was a gentle soul who found joy in the simple pleasures of life, and her compassionate spirit touched all who knew her.
A private Graveside Ceremony for the family was held at Hillside Cemetery, Clarendon. Friends and family are invited to a reception on Friday, November 7, at 5 p.m. at the Clarendon Historical Society, 16426 Fourth Section Road (Route 31A), Clarendon. Donations in her memory can be made to Hospice of Orleans, 14080 State Route 31, Albion, NY 14411. Arrangements entrusted to the Christopher Mitchell Funeral Home of Holley. To share a special memory of Frieda, visit www.mitchellfamilyfuneralhomes.com.
HOLLEY: Long, Patricia Ann, age 84, died October 25, 2025. She was born April 4, 1941, in Lockport to the late Christy and Beatrice (Hinkley) DeFilippo. In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her son, Jeffrey Nellis; sister, Dianne Jewell; and brother-in-law, Dave Long. Pat is survived by her loving husband of 61 years, Frank; son, Rick (Heidi) Nellis; daughter, Kimberly (John) Sipp; grandchildren, Philip (Diana) Sipp, Madison Nellis, Lindsay Sipp, Logan Nellis; three great-grandchildren; sister, Chris (Dave) Brooks; brother, Bob DeFilippo; brother-in-law, Ronald Jewell Sr.; and many nieces and nephews. Pat’s home was her sanctuary, filled with laughter, love, and the scent of food cooking. She loved to bake for family and friends. She enjoyed gardening and took pride in her flowers.
Her Mass of Christian Burial was held on October 31 at St. Mary’s RC Church, Holley. Interment in Hillside Cemetery. Arrangements entrusted to the Christopher Mitchell Funeral Home of Holley. To share a special memory of Pat, visit www.mitchellfamilyfuneralhomes.com.
SPENCERPORT: Fetter, Douglas H., died October 19, 2025. He is survived by his sisters, Linda Fetter Daly, Susan Fetter Brown, Nancy Fetter Barton; many nieces and nephews; many friends in Clearwater, Florida, and Canada.
A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date. Donations can be made in Doug’s memory to a charity of one’s choice. Arrangements entrusted to Walker Brothers Funeral Home, Spencerport.
CHURCHVILLE: Gregory, Gary E., age 81, formerly of Churchville, died October 22, 2025. Gary was born May 4, 1944, in Medina to George and Dorothy (Wall) Gregory. He married Sue (Caleb) Gregory on November 28, 1964. Survived by son, Jeff (Helene) Gregory of New Smyrna Beach, Florida; daughter, Kathy (Bill) Stevens of Byron; grandson, Eric Stevens of Rochester; granddaughter, Colleen Stevens of West Seneca; sister, Sue Chase of Plant City, Florida; niece, Sandy (Chase) Falco of Middleburgh; and nephew, Bill Chase of Schoharie. Predeceased by wife, Sue (2015), and brother-in-law, Ron Chase (1996). Gary Gregory was a consummate gentleman, loving husband, father, and grandfather, and a horseman who was admired and respected by all of his peers. He was a premier horse trainer for over 50 years. Mr. Gregory was a member of the United States Trotting Association, Canadian Trotting Association, Western New York Horsemen’s Association, and was inducted into the Upstate New York Harness Racing Hall of Fame in 2012.
His Funeral Service was held on October 27 at Walker Brothers Funeral Home, Spencerport. Donations can be made to the Harness Horse Youth Foundation and Standardbred Pleasure Horse Organization of New Jersey in his memory.
HILTON: Ettinger, Barbara A., age 68,died October 22, 2025. She was predeceased by her parents, Robert and Shirley Schofield. Barbara is survived by her beloved son, Michael (Kim) Ettinger; her brothers, Robert and Donald Schofield; her sisters, Patricia Schofield and Linda (Steve) Gilman; her cherished grandchildren, Noah (Jasmine), Michael Jr. (Bianca), and Dakota (Rebecca) Ettinger; ten great-grandchildren; several nieces and nephews; and close family friend, Lisa Tufano. A devoted homemaker, Barbara dedicated her life to her family and those she loved. She enjoyed doing crafts, caring for house plants, and loved birds. Her warmth, kindness, and gentle spirit will be deeply missed by all who knew her.
Visitation was held on October 30 at the Thomas E. Burger Funeral Home, Hilton. Private Interment in Parma Union Cemetery.
NORTH CHILI: McArthur, Douglas J., died October 25, 2025, at age 76. Predeceased by his son, Brian. Survived by his wife of 46 years, Gail; children, Belinda (Brian) Fraser, Chris Naugle, and Michael (Stephanie) McArthur; daughter-in-law, Brenda Naugle; grandchildren, Jessie (Patrick), Kory, Danny, Ashleigh, Alex, CJ, and Elena; three great-grandchildren; and many loving family members and friends. Doug was a man of few words with a generous heart. He loved his family and enjoyed getting together. He played baseball on his high school team, which started his love for the sport. Then, after high school, he was a batboy and also worked in the stands at Silver Stadium. He has acquired a great collection of baseball memorabilia through the years.
His Celebration of Life Service was held on October 30 at First Presbyterian Church of Chili. Contributions in his memory can be made to the church, 3600 Chili Avenue, Rochester, NY 14624. Arrangements entrusted to Leo M. Bean and Sons Funeral Home, Chili.
HILTON: Radford, Shirley Twentymon, age 96, died October 27, 2025. Born on November 9, 1928, Shirley was the beloved daughter of Wilbur and Ellamae Twentymon. She was predeceased by her loving husband, Robert George “Raddy” Radford; her brother, Robert (Kay) Twentymon; her sisters, Alice (Louis) Rodger and Clara (John) Stiles; and several brothers- and sisters-in-law. Shirley is survived by her son, Lee (Wendy) Radford, and daughter, Jill Radford Gilmore; grandchildren, Justin (Stacey) Radford, Jamie (Darren) McKee, Sarah Stone (Bryant Tranchant), and Laura (Mike) Salter; nine great-grandchildren; brother-in-law, George Radford; and sister-in-law, Patricia (Joe Sigmund) Huber. Shirley enjoyed dancing, gardening, and traveling. For 40 years, while the family owned and operated Beehler & Radford Excavating, Shirley was known as “the heart and soul of the business.” She kept the day-to-day operations running smoothly and was truly the glue that held everything together.
Visitation will be held Monday, November 3, from 4 to 7 pm at Thomas E. Burger Funeral Home, 735 East Avenue, Hilton, followed by words of reflection by her son, Lee, on his mother’s life. Interment at the convenience of the family in Parma Corners Cemetery. Donations in Shirley’s memory can be made to Open Door Mission, 156 Plymouth Ave. #1834, Rochester, NY 14608
HOLLEY: Salvatore, Marilyn L. (Sak), died October 16, 2025, at age 87. She is predeceased by parents, Emil and Nora Sak; husband, Frank Salvatore; siblings, Fred and Alan Sak; and son, Dennis Moran. Survived by son, Matthew (Megan) Salvatore; siblings, Kathleen Wheeler and Carol DeCook; grandchildren, Aislan and Elias Salvatore, and Dennis and Carlos Moran. Marilyn worked as an administrative assistant for Lakeside Memorial Hospital and the College at Brockport. Marilyn loved to cook, sew, and make macrame plant hangers. She also loved her show cats, a collection that included exotic shorthairs, seal point Himalayan Persians, and a Maine coon named Cody.
The family will receive friends on Tuesday, November 4, from 1 to 3 p.m. at the Fowler Funeral Home, 340 West Avenue, Brockport.
BROCKPORT: Hugelmaier, Lloyd C. Jr., “aka Hugy,” “aka Butch,” died October 27, 2025, at age 84. Born June 25, 1941, in Brockport to Lloyd and Elsie (Hetzke) Hugelmaier. He is predeceased by his wife, Betty; sons, Jody and Nathan (Robin). He is survived by his daughters, Amy (Don) Townsend of Inlet, Lori (Shawn) Hansen of Inlet, Kerri Keiffer of Brockport; sons Robert (Jennette) Brady of Holley and Ryan (Suzanne) Keiffer of Selkirk; 11 grandchildren; four great-grandchildren; his sisters, Marilynn (Tyler) Smith, Pam Tolster (Don), Shirley (Donald) Timberlin; brother Larry (Judy) Hugelmaier; brother-in-law, Dale (Ruth) Rath; sister-in-law, Tessie Rath; and many nieces and nephews. Lloyd served in the US Navy on the USS Bushnell (AS-15), a Fulton-class submarine tender. Lloyd joined the Brockport Fire Department in 1972 and was active for many years. He was a past President, Lieutenant, and Captain at Capen Hose, Company 4, active in the drill team, marching, and driving the 1930 Seagrave “gray ghost” at local parades. He was passionate about the preservation of the Capen Hose Fire Museum. He was also a member of the Western New York Volunteer Firemen’s Association and the Brockport Exempts Association. Lloyd was an active member of St. John Lutheran Church, where he served as an usher for many years.
Family and friends are invited to call at Fowler Funeral Home, 340 West Avenue, Brockport, on Friday, October 31, from 4 to 7 p.m. A Funeral Service will be celebrated at St. John Lutheran Church, 1107 Lake Road West Fork, Hamlin, on Saturday, November 1, at 11 a.m. Private Interment, Lakeside Cemetery, Hamlin. Donations can be made to the Capen Hose Fire Museum, 15 Brook Terrace, Brockport, NY 14420, in his memory.
HOLLEY: Richardson, James E. Sr., died October 24, 2025, at age 85. He is survived by his wife of more than 60 years, Alice (Ashbery); his three sons, James (Amy), Christopher, and Charles; his grandchildren, Ethan (Lydia) Richardson, Molly (Thomas) Sudore, Lee Richardson, and Katie (Connor) Henion; his two great-granddaughters; many special nieces and nephews; his sister, Arlene; brother and sister-in-law, Richard and Amy Ashbery; sister-in-law, Marilyn Ashbery; and many friends. Jim was a skilled heavy equipment mechanic for many years, until he answered a late-in-life calling to pastorship. After completing his studies at Roberts Wesleyan College, he shepherded his much-loved congregation at the Morton Baptist Church for nearly twenty years. He was a prolific writer, a skilled hunter, and a great storyteller.
A Memorial Service will be held at Morton Baptist Church on November 8, 2025, at noon, preceded by calling hours from 10 to 11:30 a.m. Donations can be made to CareNet of Greater Orleans in his memory. Arrangements entrusted to Christopher Mitchell Funeral Home, Holley. To share a special memory of Jim, please visit: www.mitchellfamilyfuneralhomes.com.



