September 10, 1946 – August 2, 2025
In Loving Memory of John Douglas Arva
1946– 2025
John Douglas Arva, 78, of Rochester, New York, passed away peacefully on August 2, 2025, surrounded by the love of his family.
He is survived by his beloved wife of 58 years, Donna Arva, whose unwavering partnership was the foundation of his life. Together they built a family, raising their daughter Audra Goetz (Bernard) and son Frederick Arva with pride and care. His grandchildren—Samuel, Adam, and Sophia Goetz—were the light of his later years, and he cherished every moment spent watching them grow. He is also survived by his brother, David Arva, with whom he shared a lifetime of memories and brotherhood.
John’s brilliance and curiosity led him to a career as an electrical engineer, a profession he devoted over five decades to with relentless precision and passion. His work ethic and sharp mind earned him respect among peers and admiration from those who worked alongside him.
But John’s world extended well beyond wires and circuits. He was a man who found joy in life’s simpler pleasures. He was an avid golfer, a loyal bowler, and never passed up an opportunity to go fishing. He loved working on the farm of his lifelong friend, Bennet Barkley—a place where the pace slowed, and life felt just right. That bond they shared became a lasting source of peace and joy for John.
John leaves behind a legacy of love, integrity, and quiet grace. His presence will be deeply missed, but his spirit will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.
His life will be celebrated with a private celebration. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that donations be made to Aurora Hospice House, 2495 S Union St, Spencerport, NY 14559.
